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Stella,
The reason why I am writing this email is I am really dissapointed. I was friends with you, because you were bubbly, fun, caring and most of all honest. Throughout my life, I have met alot of people that bullshit, and i chose to not be around people like that. But it seems to me you are just like them. Dotn react or get angry, but when people tell me things that dont make sense, I don just sit there and say cool, I investigate the matter to see if they are honest or not. It seems to me you were dishonest in what you said to me.

1. Once, when you called me and said you were working for someone, you told me you were making $4000 dollars a week. As you are almost 19, I calculated that $4000 a week. If you calculate that by 52 weeks is your annual income of 208 000 dollars a year. Alot of people your age dont make that money, especially working for someone. Especially if you had done a 3 month course, which you told me you did. If you dont remember this story, it was a while back when I was living in Bilambil. Around 3 weeks ago. You said you were making 4 grand a week, that were your precise words.

2. Hair extensions do cost the average 500 to 800 dollars. You got that correct. But when I asked that you had your own business and you were making alot of profit. Sometimes you get five a day?
I checked with other people, as i asked hairdressers on yahoo.com that yes you can get a rhythm on doing it for two hours but
a.) People wouldnt pay that amount if you were doing a job only for two hours.Apparently its 50$. I dont know what they meant by that.
b.)People pay the hair dressers 8 hundred for the length of time and the hair extensions included.
c.) Since I was 15 , I had always wanted to get hairextensions, and from around 15 hair salons, all of them said for a full head it takes a whole day.
d.) You said its the rythem, you would think if you are going to a top hairdresser, youd think they would have the best, and of course they would ahve the rhythem. I was not stupid when you mentioned that.
e.) At almost 18, who would pay that amount for a person who has just gone out of the course, at that age and only have it done in 1.5 or two hours.
f.) Hairdressers said, if you were doing it at that time and the experience you have had, then you mustnt be doing a good job.
g. I also calculated lats say i wrote an averge of 550 per full head. Then i wrote for a whole week, 4 people a day times 5. That equalled to
$572 000 dollars per year annually. That was average. That sounded a bit extreme. If you bullshit, atkeast do it more smartly.
h.) You need a license to start a business. ( i dont care but you do , just letting you now)
i.) People who make alot of money usually keep their mouths shut,, and dont claim their profits, especially people suppossably making the moeny you do. Bosses of a business usually say they are the manager, because they dont want anyone to know what they make. They usually find that the managers usually bullshit and say they are the bosses of the business. You can always know when poeple bullshit if they let you know how much they earn.
So ive said it, ok . I asked myself, maybe your an overexxaggerator or a bullshitter. I live my life very honestly, and when you live your life honstly , you seem to find out who really are the bullshitters. Dotn get angry and try and prove your facts straight, its calculated. I just needed to let you know, that i know you werent telling the truth , from the minute you openly talked about it. i know im ur friend, and u prob openly talked about it to me, but its still wasnt correct. I know i dont know whats happening, but wow, stella, im not that stupid. I felt what u were trying to do was to say , ive made it and you havent. In other words, im successful alreadfy, know one can say anyhting or bullshit me. I am studying and will get somewhere , but right now my success is being loved and loving my beautiful son repsonsibly. I wrote everything you said on yahoo, and all the comments said you were bullshitting. all 12 of them. So sorry
Love Katya

Taking a whole day to do Hair Extensions is what is bullshit! Did you even think that different methods take different lengths of time to apply.?
I am a professional Hair Extension artist and i do the Wax fusion and the micro bead (aka- links,locs) method.. both of these methods don’t take a whole day. the wax fusion takes just around two hours and the micro bead a little longer because its a little more tricky.So she is the one who is correct.
By saying the reason she only takes 2hours is because shes doing a bad job is incorrect! who are you to judge if shes bad or not. Have you actually seen her apply them to make that judgement? If she has clients coming to her shouldnt that prove shes doing a good job. The price varys with hair extensions some people charge $1200 so her actually charging $500 even $800 is an excellent price and having 5 clients a day is most def possible, if she can handle having that many some days well good on her for having the patience.
Also you don’t need a license to start a business, an Abn and registration is what you need to start a business and a certificate to show your qualified to apply the extensions.
When she talked about her profits was it because you asked her? because i reckon the only reason she would have told you was because you were supposed to be her friend. right?
Her being 18 should have nothing to do with how much she gets for doing hair extensions, if shes good she deserves to get that sort of money. Everything adds up so not all of that would be profit, starting a business costs money dont forget!

I can’t believe you would think your ‘friend’ would only tell you about whats happening with her life (business) to make you feel as though you haven’t made it like she has.
It probably doesnt even cross her mind! you would have to be very insecure in yourself to think a friend would do that.
And to come to a conclusion that shes a bullshitter and a liar when you don’t even know the facts about the Hair Extension business is really low.

I think the only person who should be dissapointed is your friend Stella for thinking that you were a friend she could trust. You should be happy and supportive for what shes doing, or maybe the reason you’ve throwed these accusations at her is because your overly jealous and spiteful of her.
Please ask yourself, Are you truly living your life honestly and in truth to yourself? If you were you wouldnt have to feel the need to think and accuse your friend of the things you have.

We got married 1.6 yrs ago. It was an arrange marriage. We never met each other before marriage bcoz he was in US and I was in India. But spoke for 6 months. Now we have tons of issues. I am a very optimistic person and know things can be worked out if one wants to. Coz "Life is beautiful, it’s just we need to knw how to live it beautifully".

Myself: I come from middle class but open minded, liberal and sophisticated fly. My mom, dad and bro are my best frnds. We share everything about each other and have a very deep bond. I did my Bachelor of Commerce. Bcoz of some domestic problem, I couldnt study further and stared working since I was in 2nd yr. I have 6 yrs of exp and bcoz of my dedication and hard work I did well professionally. I was heading HR dept. in one of the Softwrare co. I took care of my parents and younger brother very well. I even own a house in Mumbai. Bcoz of the hardships I have gone thru in life I have developed myself at very stage. I am a very calm, patient person and can deal with things gracefully most of the time. I believe problems are not bigger than humans.
My husband: He is a Masters in Computers. His family is pretty conservative and narrow minded where they think woman are not to be treated equally and wives are inferior then husbands. He doesnt share everything with his family. I dont see that openess or oneness in his family. They all are very serious about education, which is good. And even while evaluating a person his only criteria is HOW QUALIFIED HE/SHE IS, and whats his/her current profile, job status, or university he/she studied. He is very proud of whatever he has today. He is VERY VERY VERY short tempered as well (that runs in his family).

Here is the list for problem.
1) For him I am good for nothing. I am DUMB becoz i am not from comp background.
2) He thinks I am a liability for him becoz he has to spend for me. And I am totally depended on him. I am on h4 in US and cant work. According to him I havent done anything in life and I am just a douche bag coz I am not a post graduate and not working.
3) Whatever he does for me, he says it 10 times. Eg: you eat becoz i earn, stay in this house becoz of me. Whatever you have its only bcoz of me.
4) He is always abusive verbally and physically. Broke my nose ones, and also ruptured my ear drum ones.
5) For him my ex jobs and career is nothing but cheap, low class cos. and his job is reputed and valued.
6) Also hates my parents and dont respect them ATALL doesn’t even talk to them, coz he thinks they are girl’s parents and they have to bow in front of him.
7) VERY money oriented. Everything in life starts with money and end with money.

My parents knws everything n they are ready to take action. His parent knows only 40% and dont try to make him understand coz they are afraid of him. He doesn’t have a mentor or best frnd whom he can talk to about all these issues. I now realize I did biggest mistake by marrying such a egoistic, arrogant, aggressive, insensitive person. Or may be I am not the one he wants to be with. May be he have good qualities but that are not for me. I need to know what can be done to rectify this. Or is there a problem in me. Am I a less of a wife or is he incapable of becoming a decent husband or we are just not made for each other?

I need a serious help to my problems or else I am sure "separation will happen".

Out of everything you said, the domestic violence is such a huge issue compared to the rest, that I feel compelled to address only it. You live in the U.S. Domestic violence is a crime in the U.S. Call the police, have him arrested, don’t bail him out, and testify at his trial. While in prison, he may see the error of his ways.

Hi,my name is Amir.I’m a US born iranian-American who is fluent in persian but I’ve already asked about linguist jobs several times so now it’s time for me to talk about my personalities so that I can find the best branch.I have so much issues with my personalities and really unsure about m future.If you have any experience in military,please give me any advice you have.

I’m 18.graduated from HS in iran and going to community college right now.I’m not dum but ain’t smart either and I pretty much hate doing homework.I’m not an athlete but going to gym everyday and I like physical stuff but like I said I’m just do some exercises(like 60 push-ups a day) but not into any sports right now.I’m a nice guy and my confidence is lower than average and I rarely stand up for my rights if somebody is being unfair to me.I just don’t know how to do it cuz I can’t really speak clearly sometimes due to my low confidence(a part of it is cuz english is my 2nd language).I don’t even like to harm an animal.I never kill the spiders in my house,I grab them with a napkin and throw em outa my house.I might be a little arrogant when I meet elders or disables ppl cuz I feel like their words don’t matter but still,I don’t like to hurt anybody’s feelings or give them a hard time.I go through some anger and depression everyday because of my past family problems.my leadership skills are zero.I can’t even handle telling somebody to do what.I can get over taking orders but I never imagined myself giving orders to a group when I’m not even sure if what I’m doing is right or not.I also have some problems with communicating with ppl.I mean,I can keep a conversation for a while but after I don’t have any topic,I’m the same old boring person again.I don’t like making enemy’s and if I did in school before,I always avoided them cuz I’m just scared(I used to get bullied a lot).I care about ppls opinions a lot cuz I’m always unsure if I can do something that doesn’t humiliate me in their minds.I’m not really good at understanding stuff in the beginning.I really need extra attention and teaching so that I can get something clearly.not always but sometimes.I get nervous about stuff a lot and take stuff serious more than usual.people can read my mind easily by earning my trust in few moments if they act like somebody who knows everything.I feel embarrassed about stuff a lot,especially in front of a crowd.I live in a studio apartment and my parents live in iran.I just got fired from my job because of slow work performance.just so you know,I’m not really religious(raised muslim) but I believe in God and life after death and I like wanna be a good person so that I can go to heaven.

I really like working with guns and stuff like that but it’s just it seems like all those soldiers who are real fighters or who are fighting in iraq are bunch of junks who keep cussing(I don’t like cussing) and act like mean guys and in general,most of them are those bad boys.
I like to do something for America but I don’t agree with the war going on right now.I don’t like living in a smelly ships and wearing those weird sailor uniforms so I don’t like navy.I think air force is for sissy guys who don’t really like military stuff.national guard and reserves is once a month so it ain’t worth it to me.marines seem to be bunch of heartless tough guys who don’t show any mercy and are trained to kill and live in crappy places or even sleep outside.army is my favorite branch but on the other hand,they accept anybody including criminals. but yet,they will give me the most money for my language but their deployments are too long.I don’t want to leave America.I always missed America during my 8 years in iran so that’s why I don’t wanna go to afghanistan for 2-3 years.
..But still army is my favorite branch.I really like its uniforms and its name.marines sounds like a lady’s name,at least to me:) and they have lower payment but still,less deployment.but please tell me if marines will improve my personal issues due to the tough training(I’m not sure if I’m gonna make it with these problems I have).I’m not even sure if I’m gonna be able to make a career out of these branches.I’m fluent in persian but also dual citizen and my father worked for the iranian govt which makes my security clearance hard for me.

Thank you for reading.please tell me if I can get more advice from you by emailing you.

Hello Im a Marine living in Camp Pendelton. Honestly i love the Marines. If you become one of us you will be happy with what you have accomplished at bootcamp. I have never seen a Marine that was not proud of being a Marine. You will walk proud and have a sense of pride. There only 200 thousand Marines and over a million Army soldiers. The Army offers more jobs and some better bonuses. But I tell you that that is the wrong reason to join. The Marines is more demanding physiaclly and mentally. All the Marines I know are very patriotic. Just make sure you are not doing it for the wrong reasons because you will regret your decision as a Marine. The Marines are an elite infantry force and thats what we are know for. Thats what we evolve around. You will attend the school of Infantry no matter what your job is. Army has a much bigger purpose and options. But Marines carry that pride of belonging. It depends on what you want to do in the military. If you want Infantry then Army and Marines have that. But Army is more up to date and a little safer. Marines are put in some of the most dangerous places and they rely on each other. I am afraid to say this but i wont be surprised if this turns into world war III. Do you want to be one of the few? Many Americans dont have anything against muslims. We just wanna catch the bad guys thats all. Yes and there bad guys like Osama Bin Laden, and people like him, We just dont want any threat against this country. 9-11 never forget. Iraq was a threat as well Saddam Hussein killed many innocent people. We cannot allow that because America is a place of freedom and thats what we represent.
Best of luck to you - Staff Sgt Alicea

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the prompt is write about an idea or an experience you have had that you find intellectually engaging:

this is my essay

I recently finished reading an engaging book called China Shakes the World: A Titan’s Rise and Troubled Future—and the Challenge for America by James Kynge. Usually, I don’t go for the informative, non-fiction type books, and since I was required to read it for school, I took the “cup half-empty” approach to reading it. But what started out as boring, time-consuming school work, quickly evolved into an intellectually stimulating experience. As Kynge moved from China’s economic strides and accomplishments, to the surprising and negative ramifications of its prosperity, I became very fond of his writing style. He would find a way to illustrate his points with perfect anecdotes from his repertoire that he built as a journalist in China for two decades. These powerful anecdotes, and the points he makes with them, got me thinking. Thinking hard. Thinking so hard, that sometimes I would lay awake at night reminiscing about my trip to China last summer, and how everything that Kynge talks about in China Shakes the World could have been hidden so well from me. One of the many egregious stories that Kynge includes in his book features a slew of forty-some companies that decided to sell a cheaper, less nutritious version of milk powder bearing counterfeit brands. This new powder contained just enough protein to keep a baby alive for 6 to eight months, but not enough to promote normal growth and development. The companies hoped that the more malnourished and sick a baby looked, the more fake powder their parents would feed them, thinking that the baby was being underfed. This would be good for sales, but unfortunately, it was not good for the babies, as hundreds are known to have died, and countless others would be affected for life; all of this just because a few companies wanted to earn the “extra buck”. Another anecdote reveals that government officials neglected to perform costly, but necessary, procedures to test donated blood for diseases such as AIDS. Consequently, hundreds of rural adults became infected, died, and left their children as orphans. Among others, he also talks about the story of a young woman, who was informed that she had been mistaken about being accepted to college. As she lived her life, she encountered many curious circumstances, such as congratulatory baby baskets when she had no child on the way. Later, she found out that her college entrance exam results and her identity were stolen by the unintelligent daughter of an important Communist Party member. While the young woman lived a life of poverty, another woman was living a great life under her identity. All of these, along with examples of blatant disregard for the environment, an absence of intellectual property rights, and abuse of power, made me question China. How could one billion people allow themselves to be manipulated and abused like that? The only answer I could come up with would be a lack of direct accountability. Since the Chinese people don’t have any power to elect new officials, the current ones can just act in their own self interest and there is no way they can be taken out of power. Obviously, this kind government facilitates the actions that are described in Kynge’s book, so I am extremely thankful that I live in a country with a representative democracy based on direct accountability. I wonder how one of the most populous countries in the world could allow itself to be governed by selfish tyrants who only think of their own benefits, at the expense of the rest of their country, the world, and future generations. That people who would knowingly sacrifice newborns in order to make more profit exist in this world appalls me. Honestly, what kind of society can facilitate such behavior? It’s unthinkable. To me, it seems like China needs a revolution to unseat a government run by the greedy and immoral, before its huge business and environmental influence ruins the world we live in.

damn that was long as hell. good though

I really don’t know what to do.
Where my life is going,, What should I do ..
I came here Australia to get Citizenship so I was planing to go to College to take Cookery or Baking course.
However, Now… I really don’t know.
Why do I have to study Cookery with spending $22,000 for 2years. I mean it is not what I want to do.
What I really want to study is Nursing and I want go to Africa as a volunteer ship before I get 25.
But always the problem is Money.
I have to earn my school fee and everything for living while I am studying.
I have to pay more than $15,000 per year for The Nursing Course..
So I decided to get a Citizenship ..choose the easy way to get that is Cookery.
Then, I can go to University and Study Nursing with cheaper price..or I can use HECS program.
But here is problem, I still have to do so many difficult things such as prove 900hours work experience IELTS7.0,
2years Full-time Diploma.
Whoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooa
You may say ‘ so what? ‘
‘Nothing..just I envy you.. You already have citizenship with English when you were born’
.. But I don’t have any choice so I have to take Cookery Course whether I want it or not just for Citizenship.
How lucky you are. You can do everything you want do in this Country.
Do not waste your time .. do what you really want to do..

so stop griping and try these things in youtr own country. citizenship is an honour bestowed on foreigners from anywhere to anwhere else. if it was so great where you left then why leave. if you want to improve your life you have to work at it.

people who are born in a place have other demands upon them. they have to pay the taxes all ther adult lives to support tourism and immigration for people like you while government initiatives take jobs from them and offer them to you.

if I were you I would stop that line of thinking and switch from envious to GRATEFUL.

native Australians face the same hurdles when they emigrate to another country.

I am 35, my partner 44. We both are engaged and been out for nearly 3 years. the first 2 years were sorting out his debts, remortgage, arrears etc. Now when his bonus arrives in April from work he should have now cleared all these issues. He worked hard for that bonus and things are on the up.

However, just lately, whenever I ask about a wedding date, he says when his money is clear and better we will look into wedding plans more so.

I feel I have been waiting in this relationship for 3 years for him to get himself sorted. We live in his house, which we had to rent out for 6 months while we lived in it with some real characters which wasnt nice and we broke up during that time.

Now its better and we live there alone, I have my own flat rented out as well. Financially things are fine, I dont have any debts or worries and work 60 hour week. Just lately, I have non stop colds, my job can take me to midnight 2 nights per week and at weekends we just or more like i just flake out from exhaustion.

I would like to half my hours and work part time and have children, he said he would love children, I have come off the pill now for 3 months but nothing as of yet ie not pregnant. I see his friends with their married lifestyle, 2 children, house, mortgage together and I get upset, somewhat jealous even at times and wish that was me. Their wives work part time….He mentions I dont contribute to the house, (its still not in his name, but with his ex because of arreas pending) but I do, he pays the bills, I get the food and do up the house (which isnt mine) inside so its lovely and at the same time pay my flat as well ie mortgage, bills etc as the tenant in there only pays for the mortgage. So its not like I am saving money or fritting it away. We both earn roughly the same but he has the debts to pay off.

I worry also as my partner jokes and says he wishes he worked for himself, every monday morning him and his best friend call one another every morning before heading to work moaning about their jobs and hoping for a change one day. My partner even jokes about starting something else…which is fine but with his back log of previous debt he is just getting his things sorted out and then he says this which makes me feel really unstable about family/children etc. He doesnt like driving to work, so makes sure he is hardly in the office so instead works at home or travels to see clients then comes home afterwards, forever changing his mind throughout the week.

I am feeling a little lost even though he wants and says he wants a family and marriage. His best friend,been married 20 years, 2 children, 2 houses, one in UK the other abroad…..his wife is lovely but he still moans about her, talks about her horribly to my partner and like 2 school kids are like this every morning on the phone to work!

men will they ever grow up???? lol but I sense I am running out of time and patience here…I am not sure whether to wait for April until this is resolved ie his bonus but when I mention to him that its upsetting me, we end up rowing and he gets defensive, saying well I dont do this, dont do that…and on it goes….!!!

The house is immaculate, washing done, beds clean, cleaning done…I try as much as I can while working a full time job as well….sometimes I feel we live 2 separate lives, now we sleep in 2 separate rooms because I dont feel understood about this and it clears my head thinking alone.

thank you for reading such a long post!
x

first of all - a man of his age -44- must already have strong career, big salary and payed out house. and children. like his buddy. if he still hasn’t decided what the heck does he want and still has some debts and house not sorted out - he is a pretty lousy candidate for a father of your children. and u re 35 - when re u going to start having children? isn’t 35 already pretty late? so what re u waiting for? i say he is a boy, not a man and he will never grow up. some men re born grown up and mature and some die being spoiled useless brats. my husband for instance pays for everything and i do not work - i concentrate on my kids which are not even his - they re from my previous, useless, marriage. so u better sort the thing about money and children now, before u re 40.

Lets face it. Australians don’t know the meaning of the word poverty.

We earn $17 an hour and think it is a low wage. We all live a very comfortable middle class lifestyle because of very even income distribution and developed eco.

Some might say we are spoiled. But I have say we have earned everything we have by always questioning authority and standing up for working class rights. By helping out our neighbor in need, and in return being helped such that no Australian ever needs to live in poverty.

Those same people calling Australians spoiled are the same people oppressing their own. Those same people that live lavish lives of luxury while their own population languishes in poverty. They know nothing of suffering, or want or need, yet they condemn Australians because we have the common sense and decency to organize our society in a fair way.

We developed, we did not not over breed and we did not fall for capitalist ideology.

Why should we feel guilty for our generous society ?
Americans you killed a lot more native people than the Australians did. We’re just more public and remorseful about what happened.
The attitude towards women is simple it is sensible.

They have vagina’s they make babies and they complain a lot. They can also do whatever they want but generally, they prefer to be submissive, ok, alright, that is their choice.
Airports are bad everywhere in the world and there are fat middle class jerks everywhere in the world too.

being from usa and having looked at things realisticly and traveled a lot i would say neither australians or americans should complain about much cuz we both have life far above average of world and mostly through no fault of others nor through our own doings.. we both stand on the shoulders of those who came before us and kicked butt and worked hard… but do you truly think that you would have same lifestyle if you were born to a mother in ethiopia? or india? or china? or wherever? now if you start to think blood counts & you deserve it cuz of your ancestors then you really need to suck it up and drop to youir knees and kiss the queens toes and toss out your independance cuz hey, thats blood line too… be proud of what you do with what you have and opportunity but dont for a second prance around saying you deserved that opportunity more than any other person born on same day you were all over this planet… we r both lucky & better off to appreciate that fact

Okay, I’m not there yet, but I’m working on it.

I can fight some of the issues, but I can’t change the clock. I’m facing my 67th birthday later this month. I’m reasonably healthy, with a few issues. I’ve achieved most of my life’s goals, and I’m working on some others.

I now understand that I will not live forever, though I hope to be around for a good while.

I don’t want to be incapacitated, and hope to avoid it.

I don’t care if I look a little bit old. I earned it. I want to live life to the fullest.

Any words of advice? (I’m not coloring my hair.)
Thank you for your thoughts, Melissa, but I found Christ decades ago and he’s already my savior.

That’s why I’m not worried about the next great adventure after life. It’s the great adventures BETWEEN now and then that have my attention.

Growing gracefully is not about how you look, but about how you feel. Accepting and embracing the body’s natural aging process, is key to having a better peace of mind. Instead concentrate on the activities that renew your mind and boost your soul.

Enjoy the activities that bring you joy and laughter. Spend time with family members with whom you share loving relationships. Be a channel of blessings to others by sharing the wisdom of your experiences, your home, your laughter, etc., with others even total strangers.

Mix well with people of all ages, so you don’t feel like an age is hanging over your head or death will be knocking soon. Comparatively 67 is young and you with God’s grace have many more years ahead of you, considering you are in good health.

While you may have accomplished most of your preset goals, make new ones, and this time make them fun goals without restrictions or time limits, and live life like you just started afresh.

Try new activities, even those you may have previously thought boring or not your style, you just might surprise yourself.

Make new friends of all ages and races, you never know which paths you might discover.

Charitable giving of your time, not just your money, will bring you more satisfaction, and when you do give money include causes that you might actually be able to witness the gratitude on the recipients faces. There is a lot of joy in giving.

Spend quality time on your passion, and if it includes travelling, explore new horizons rather than familiar destinations, it will open you up to new beginnings.

Give gratitude to God daily and help others to do the same.

Happy birthday in advance, and may your joys be fulfilled and your horizons be broadened.

I’ve been with my boyfriend for over eight months now and my parents haven’t liked him since the day they met him. They got over it but they’ve started back again. A few weeks ago, I lost $40. I was with him Thursday night and I realized it was gone on Friday afternoon. They’re dead set on telling me it was him. I was the only one who had my wallet that night and there’s no way possible he could have taken it.
(Side Note: He went to jail a few weeks before that for theft. He got out and he’s going to court sometime soon. It happened, it’s over with.)
My mom and I got into a fight because of the $40. It turned into a fight because I do what I want with the money I earn. She said if I kept that up then I would have to start paying for insurance, cell phone, ect. She also said that while I was living under her roof I couldn’t do what I wanted to do with my money. By this she means take my boyfriend out on a date, as in I pay for everything.
While I was at work, a friend of mine came in and told me that his father had told him that my boyfriend stole money from me. My dad had told his dad that he did. I went and confronted my dad about it that night and he wouldn’t talk to me about it. The next night, we got into a huge argument. We yelled at each other and he threatened to hit me and everything. Long story short, they take my truck away except for school and work.
On Tuesday of this week, I was in a car wreck. It wasn’t horrible but my truck is undrivable at the moment. I just had a few bruises but my work wanted me to go to the doctor and make sure I could work. While we were there my mom said she knew about my boyfriend going to jail (this is why I put the side note in earlier) and she knew that when i had stayed with a friend of mine, he’d been there, too. She’s figured out that we’ve had sex, but I’m 17 so there’s not much she can do about it.
While waiting for the doctor to come back we started talking about what path I’m going down. I’m going to a nearby community college after I graduate and I’m going to school for English, more than likely Teaching. My boyfriend wants to be a police officer and he wants to go into the Air Force in order to do this and he wants to marry me before he gets into it so that he can support me whenever he’s not there because a spouse gets all the benefits of the soldier and he’s gonna send me money from his paycheck so that I can pay bills and everything. In other words, he’s ready to start a life with me.
My parents want me to choose between them and my boyfriend and if I choose him, I have no place to live after graduation, which isn’t a big deal because my boyfriend is already getting an apartment whenever he graduates and his parents move back to Georgia.
My parents want me to get advice about what I should do and they want me to know how hard living on my own is going to be. So what I’m asking is for you to give me your opinions on my situation and what you would do and your experiences when you moved out and started living on your own.
I don’t need smart ass comments. I’m looking for advice.
He did not steal my money. I either lost it or some thief at my high school took it.

Your mom is crazy. hahaha i didnt say what you thought i would say!!! for real though i think shes my mom who has to take meds to be anywhere near sane. look ive already told you what i think. ( i think) either way, heres what i think, for 1 the day you wrecked your truck, me, my bf and your bf almost cried because we were so worried about you. your mom just yelled at you for wrecking your stupid truck!!! not that your trucks stupid, i just think shes stupid for not caring about if you were hurt or not. that makes me wonder if your mom is okay or not. anyways always remember that i love you. so does charlie and jayden. Junior loves you a lot too. okay. just keep your cool for now. things will work out the way they are supposed to dont worry. i love you!!! AND NOW I HAVE A MESSAGE TO ALL THE ASSHOLES WHO HAVE TO LEAVE A STUPID SMART ASS COMEMNT…. well i cant say what i want to say becuase im nice, but you need to just leave her alone and mind your own business. your only being mean to her because your completly insecure of yourself.

another thing… im not being rude this time but the person her parents want her with is worse then her bf. both of them are my friends so i know for experience, im not giving a biased oppinion. also, her parents yell at her for everything!!! and i mean that literally. her mom told me shed kill me if angel got pregnant!!!! thats not my fault if she does that…. o sry rambling