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If you found a girl who is very beautiful, very sexy, she indeed is very attractive and smart and have a successful career, earns good money and is independent, has a good and loving heart and is very sweet and romantic girl, this girl would never cheat on you, she wants to love you, and be loved by you, you have a very strong chemistry with her that makes you want to kiss her so much and make love to her everytime you see her, and the only thing is that she wants to wait for get married and found out if you are her true love so she will give herself completely to you in heart, and body.
This girl likes to have fun, is very good dancer, friendly, has a beautiful smiles and is very positive about life and makes you feel happy with everything she does for u.
But even if she likes to have fun, she doesn’t drink not only because of religion but to keep herself healthy since she likes to keep the sexy body she has, and wanna wait for sex. And she really loves you, and accept you just with the condition that let her take the kids once you have them to church and that you are tolerant with her believes.
Would you ATHEIST man will leave this kind of woman (that i can TELL exist) to go and change her and what you feel for her to have an easier girl to have sex with while boyfriends and live together instead of get married because everyone else do it like that? or because you want a girl to get drunk with? or if your atheist parents tell you to forget her because she is christian?
Is there any good excuse for an atheist man to leave a girl like this?
Maybe for some atheist guys, but not me. Someone like that isn’t compatible with me and vice versa. Why would she get to indoctrinate the kids with her religion, but I couldn’t teach them healthy skepticism? It sounds like she’d be demanding more of me than she’d be willing to give up.
Also, I’ve read the Bible. I was a Christian for many years. Drinking isn’t against Christianity, and having *a* drink isn’t unhealthy. And that weird obsession about their genitalia is messed up.
No, someone who’s that indoctrinated isn’t a strong thinker.
No, I wouldn’t "change her" to find an easier girl. I’d hope that a woman I was with didn’t have some weird hang-up about "sexual purity". I could wait until we were more serious, but not until marraige. Not because I’m a sex-maniac, but because sex is nice, it’s nice to be together, and there’s nothing wrong with it. Demanding "purity" is dehumanizing, and it gives you unrealistic expectations.
Yes, I’d prefer to date someone who I’d eventually live with before marriage. It’s not because "that’s what all the cool kids are doing". Marriage is a huge commitment, especially financially, you don’t want to go into that blind. You have to know you can live with someone. The era where the woman is little more than property of the man is long over. Marriage is a co-equal partnership.
Yes, I would like a girl I could get drunk with. Although not all the time. Getting drunk isn’t a frequent occurrence for me. Drinking isn’t sinning anything more than dancing is. Wanting to be able to drink with someone is the same as wanting to be able to dance with someone. Someone who looks down their nose at me for having a beer every once in a while is not someone who is very sweet.
I’m a grown person, my parents don’t have a say in who I date. BTW, my mother is Christian and my father is an atheist (so I’m certain they wouldn’t tell me to forget her anyways). I kind of wish he didn’t let her take us to church without challenging what its indoctrination more. I don’t fault him, but it’s not a mistake I’d make.
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I have previously been diagnosed with depression and now bipolar disorder 2. My mood swings are rapid and intense and there is always an underlying sadness. I’ve been seeing a therapist and although she is nice, she is of no help. I am in the process of trying to switch to a new one. I have a very stressful family life and that is my main trigger. I am 20 yrs old and unfortunately living at home to save money, but hope to move out soon. My main problem is that I have an OBSESSION with my sister and her boyfriend that is driving me crazy. I see only the negatives in their relationship (and trust me, there are many). He is an illegal immigrant who is marrying her in hopes of becoming legal, and she is completely blinded by him and her family has become irrelevant to her. He now lives with us, has no job, constantly smokes marijuana in our basement and spends all of my sister’s hard earned money and yet she still thinks he is the second coming of Christ. Everything he does bothers me to a point that is not normal. I don’t know how to deal with this. I don’t know how to live a normal, productive life while he is living under the same roof taking advantage of my family. The depression/bipolar/anxiety/and obsession is killing me and ruining my relationships. I don’t want to live like this anymore, but I am at a loss as to what to do. If you have any advice or experience with something like this, your help is very much appreciated.
christina c-
As a matter of a fact, this is my business. She is my sister and was my best friend and this is affecting MY family so I have every right to be involved. I already see a psychiatrist and psychologist combo and I do talk about MY problems as you said, but they happen to be one of them. I will not watch my family crumble in front of my eyes and do nothing. So please, take your opinion elsewhere.
Unfortunaly you are in no control of this situation, the only thing that you can control, is yourself.
Nobody else, as much as you want to do it, and have a say in your sister’s relationship, you do not.
I understand your frustration, and anger twoards your sister’s boyfriend. You sound very angry, and want to possibly tell him all the truth to his face on what you think about him.
If i were you, i would sit my sister down, tell her how i feel about this situation, if she doesn’t want to listen to you, there is absolutely nothing you can do, except wait for her to open her eyes and see what is really going on. You know you are telling the truth, and you know what is right and wrong, and you know what this man is doing, except you are not in the position to kick him out. You are not in the relationship with him. You do not have a say, whether he stays or goes. You can talk to your sister and your family, say what is on your mind, but whether or not they believe you, is totally up to them.
I hope everything works out for you.
Best of luck.
I live in Georgia. Hate it here, much of my family’s in NY, I was born there, and I’ve wanted to move there for quite a while. I’ve been thinking about going into law enforcement. Yes, I know it’s much harder to be a cop there than many places especially Georgia. I’ve spoken to a couple of NY cops before. I read up on it and I can apply and go to the academy at 20, but not become an officer until I’m 21. I’m only 19 now though. I just turned 19 the beginning of April so I have a year before I can apply, but academy’s 6months so I should apply about 6 months after my 20th birthday right? so what can I do from now until then? do i just try my best to snag a job at a mickey d’s and keep in shape till then or is there something relative that I can do?…that earns money. Now on actually becoming a cop in NY. I read the basic requirements and I don’t see why I wouldn’t get accepted unless they just can’t take anyone at all at the time I apply. I’m physically, psychologically, and medically healthy, even dental’s fine, I wear contacts, but it’s not that bad, I’m not color blind or anything. I have no criminal background of any kind or even any tickets. Anyway, let’s say I get accepted. I read that they pay for you to learn at the academy and that you live there or near there for 6 months. Is that right? Just how does that work? I need to know just how financially prepared I should be. What is it like going through the academy and starting out? I’ve asked 2 NY cops before and both times I got answers very similar to "it’s a’ight. it’s not bad." lol very general and not very helpful. the only useful info i got was that it’s difficult starting out as a rookie because you’re getting used to the life and other cops give you a hard time. so if you’re an NY cop or know a lot about being one, then please help me out. Thanks!
oh yeah- I’m a college freshman right now at a community college, but things aren’t looking so hot financially. I haven’t taken out any loans yet, my mom’s been paying, but now she’s looking for any reason I shouldn’t take summer classes and to cut down on my fall classes so I’m not sure what the near future holds right now. If there’s something productive I can do without going to college right now, and relative to law enforcement, then please let me know! again, Thanks!
You need 60 college credits so stay in school. I would try and come up soon to take the civil service test. You may want to study for it but it’s not that hard, in my opinion. Right now the NYPD is a several tests behind in hiring, so taking it now will get you started. I took it in June and they’re not even close to my test. They have walk in tests for free in Manhattan. If they call you too soon, which isn’t probable, you can defer it until you’re ready. I don’t know if they accommodate people from out of state, like scheduling everything within a couple days like other departments will. If they don’t start savings money, or look into staying with family for a couple months while you go through the hiring process. The academy is 6 months but you don’t live there, so you’ll have to find some place to live. Just stay in shape and out of trouble and keep your GPA up.
An increasing source of conflict in the world today is centered around religious believers’ demands for respect. Muslims demand “respect” that would forbid criticism, satire, or mocking of their religion. Christians demand “respect” that would amount to something very similar. Nonbelievers are caught in a bind when it’s not clear what “respect” is supposed to entail and how it is supposed to be achieved. If respect is so important to believers, they need to be clear about what they want.
For example, pause for a while and take a look at this picture:
http://i.imgur.com/Y7XjM.jpg
I show this picture on the day the editor of Danish newspaper Politiken apologized for the offense caused by reprinting it & was threatened with death and dismemberment by the Muslim community of Denmark. Clearly a violation of free speech.
Why should we respect such censorship and such barbarous actions from the so-called "religion of peace"? http://thebsreport.files.wordpress.com/2009/11/islam-religion-of-peace.jpg
Why should I respect the forced genital mutilation that is made "OK" by religion? Why should I respect the religion where thousands of religious figures rape and sodomize innocent boys and girls and try to cover it up by saying it never happened? Why should I respect the cause of millions of deaths and countless wars throughout history?
Generally, I respect people. But I have no respect for religion. I can tolerate religion, but respect is earned, not mandatory. Sure there are religious charities, but they are selective & dogmatic. They search to indoctrinate anyone they can with their donations. Why should I respect that indoctrination?
People who follow a creed, support it. Whether it just moderate beliefs, it still enables and justifies war, irrationalities or not, they are still responsible for funding and proselytizing the so-called "goodness" of it to others. I already said that I don’t expect any respect from anyone. But the reason I have friends is because they have earned my respect. Religion on the other hand, has done the opposite. Religion is a construct. It is that construct that I do not respect. it is true that in every religion there are wonderful, kind, compassionate people who try and live good lives and try to help others, but for the good people who do cruel and evil things have religion to justify those actions. Example: "It says so in the bible", "You’re going to hell’, "God told me to do so…". We should only respect the people who do good things, Not the religions that do "good things".
I don’t respect religion. Do you?
I really don’t respect religions either and I’m an evangelical Christian. I use the term loosely because I don’t want to be associated with the selfish gospel of some who want to get rich off God.
I see religions as being man made, each with their own interpretation that they say is the right one from God. My Christianity is a personal walk with the Lord, taking up my cross daily and putting others before myself. I’m not perfect but this is what I strive to do daily. It isn’t belonging to the right religion or even going to church. And as far as religions that threaten anyone bodily harm, dismembership or any other fear/control tactics now or in the past, they are not of God. That is my opinion.
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